Articles

I have divided this website into three sections of articles written through my research, trial and error dealing with my own MLCer and through supporting other Standers.

Midlife Crisis
Paving the Way & Self Focus
Personal Relationship
Standing Actions
Marital Relationship, Interacting with an MLCer

Though I list MLC first because it is most often where the questions begin, the most important section is the second. I have experienced this myself and understand that until there are some answers, or perhaps speculations to your questions, it will be difficult for you to focus on your Self. In this first section, I give the definition or type of MLC I use and provide you with stages, present motivations and possible MLC root causes.

The Standing Actions section is necessary because most people do not know how to control their own shadow and are thus unable to refuse their MLCer’s projections. Since most MLC spouses will not cut off all contact, it is important to learn strategies for dealing and interacting with a spouse in MLC.