I'm Kenda-Ruth and I believe in marriage.
Are you tired of hearing...
  • Once a cheater always a cheater?
  • You're better off without him?
  • She doesn't deserve you?
  • I guess it just wasn't meant to last?
  • Divorce is no big deal?
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going on in my marriage."
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Support for Dealing with Infidelity
and a Spouse in Midlife Crisis

If you've been wondering:
  • How can I Stand for my marriage when my spouse won't even talk to me?
  • How do I stop crying, begging, panicking...?
  • How do I forgive and can I trust again?
  • What is going on inside my spouse's head?
  • What is midlife crisis?
Help is here!

A Centered Box

Just some content to show the display of this box. The class used to create this box is called "center-box" Look in the source code, to see how the div class "clear" has been used ahead of this center box.

This is to ensure the image above cannot overlap this box. The class named clear is the css equivalent of the standard HTML tag, br clear="all", and should be used to "clear" content such as forms and floated images.

This Is A Full Width Text Box

Handy for putting some text in, that you want to stand out from the rest of your page. Just copy and paste the entire code, and put it anywhere you want. Then just replace this text with your own. You can also put a picture in here.

A Half Box to The Left

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This div is 1/2 width, and aligned to the left. You can replace the image with your own, and cut and paste the entire code to a more suitable spot on a different page.

This box will always stay at 1/2 the width of the column, and will extend down the more you type into it. Which means that you can divide your main content column into 1/2, without actually adding any cells to the table. A pretty good way to do it, I think, and it adds a little visual interest to the page .

Use the class half-right to have the box display on the right side of your page. This is fully documented in the video tutorials.

Text Box

This is the same full width textbox as used on the main body column.

However, it automatically resizes to fit the narrower column, as it isnt a fixed width. A pale background like this is ideal for putting testamonials in.

A Half Box to The Right

This is the default font.

This Is A Text Box

This is the default font.

This Is An Opt-In Box

This is the default font.

This Is An Opt-In Box

This is the default font.

This Is An Opt-In Box

This Is A Feature Box

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I'm Kenda-Ruth and I believe in marriage.
Are you tired of hearing...
  • Once a cheater always a cheater?
  • You're better off without him?
  • She doesn't deserve you?
  • I guess it just wasn't meant to last?
  • Divorce is no big deal?
Join me and over 4000 subscribers and learn to Love Anyway in Any Way

Is your spouse having a Midlife Crisis (MLC)? Is he or she depressed, cheating, talking about divorce, acting moody or angry? Do you want to learn how to deal with someone experiencing MLC?

This website is for the spouses of those experiencing a crisis of identity wherein the person often sees no alternative but to abandon his marriage. Though the identity crisis I focus on is the Midlife Crisis, crises of other life transitions may also apply.

Thank you for visiting The Hero's Spouse. I'm Kenda-Ruth--known as Rollercoasterider in our community forum. Though I recognize exceptions, I do not advocate divorce. I was a Stander. My husband and I have been reconciled and rebuilding since 2008. You can read my story here.