Coaching
We can meet in a Zoom meeting room--you don't need an account or I can call your phone from my Skype and to you it will just be as though we are talking on the phone. Each session is 60 minutes.
Office Hours
Pacific/Western Timezone
Monday, Thursday and Friday between 2:00 and 4:00 pm by appointment.
If these times will not work for you, please discuss your availability with me; I will do what I can to accommodate.
Cost: $125.00 USD
What Will My Receipt/Statement Say?
Some of you may be concerned that your MLCer may see a suspicious statement on your credit or bank statement. The company name does not refer to midlife crisis or this website. I use a neutral name which I will not post here where snooping spouses can find it. But please be assured that I am doing my best to protect your transactions from MLCer suspicion.
Disclaimer!!
I am not a therapist; I have no training in counseling. I offer no guarantees with my coaching-advice. What I am is an experienced Stander who is in a reconciled marriage. I have a Master of Fine Arts in Writing.
Though there are patterns of similarity, each person is different. I would like to guarantee that whether your spouse returns or not, you will be successful. But I cannot say what you will or will not choose, but I will promise that you can be successful; the choice is your own. I offer generalities, referencing what worked for me or others whom I have assisted. Standing is not an easy path. The choice to Stand may be simple, but the actions are challenging. Midlife Crisis is your spouse's journey; embrace your own journey and you will reap the rewards.
Do you feel like a deer about two seconds after seeing the headlights?
You know you’ve gotta stop crying, panicking or asking your spouse ANYTHING. And you know you should let-go and give space so that you can learn to respond and communicate with your spouse from a place of calm rather than emotional hurt.
Introducing
Understanding Midlife Crisis
The foundational course to give you answers and clarity into "What the he!! Is going on with my spouse!"
I know what it is to be a Stander. I know what it is to live with a Monstering and confused MLCer and deal with an active affair and an alienator set on destroying my marriage. I know what it is to live in a reconciled marriage. I can help you because I was you.
Recommended!!!
The podcast for men who's wives have gone a little batshit crazy
Be sure to check out the episodes where they interview me!
Part 1: The Interview
Part 2: Call-In Questions
Ask a Question
Tell me what you are struggling with and maybe you will see your question answered as a future blog post.
FREE DOWNLOAD
Empirical Midlife Studies and the Backlash Against Midlife Crisis
An academic review of major midlife studies highlighting the discrepancy between interpretations about midlife crisis and the data.
