Detach + Let-Go + Surrender = Acceptance
The three Releasers do not equal Acceptance, rather like a chemical reaction, they yield it. It is through the acts of release that Acceptance becomes possible. It is both a precursor and consequence of the Releasers. Acceptance is Surrender; surrender is the action and Acceptance is the knowledge. It requires surrender, but surrender requires the knowledge--intellectual understanding of the concept.
Releasing is like weaving a tapestry; you complete a complex section only to have your MLCer unravel the threads--though this can be through taunting and deliberate Replay escalation, the actions that tear the most at the threads are the touch-n-goes, return attempts, changing niceties and I don't know what I wants. It is behaviors that take advantage of and absorb your hope that are the most damaging to your ability to release. Simply knowing of these possibilities can create a lock-stitch to enhance the strength of your tapestry, but sections will still unravel and you will reweave a different weft through the original warp, changing the theme and design as you apply what you have learned.